The big question for me nowadays is: Does it matter what happens in life?
Almost all of us think that it matters a lot, that this is an absurd question. I must say that I feel more comfortable when I try on the idea that it really doesn't matter.
How significant is life, really? If you have read my blog regularly, and not just read the posts with interesting titles, you will know that I have been wondering whether we really have a choice in what we do - whether there really is such a thing as free will. If we have no choice, then whether what happens is important, whether it "matters" or not, is a question without any meaning. And I seem to feel more comfortable with the present moment when I am not considering how important life is.
To recap a moment, it is difficult or even impossible to show you have free will. Many clever philosophers have tried in vain, apparently. There is no way you can show you might have done something differently from the way you actually did it. You can assert your freedom of choice, but that is not enough of course. And if you are one of those people who think the brain runs the whole show, then of course there definitely can be no free will for you, because who would do the choosing? Same applies to those non-duality-ers who have discovered there is no actual person anywhere, only a body and a mind.
I could single out some of the blogs I read - Vesta, for example, and Elisa, to mention only two of many, for whom a great part of their blog is devoted to questions about the significance or importance of what they are doing or thinking. If they weren't like that I probably would not find them so interesting. Mine is like that, too, very often, in fact it seems to be like that right now! Our whole world would be different if people no longer concerned themselves with what they think important, as far as choices go.. At least this whole spanking blogging community would collapse, to say nothing of the rest of the world's doings.
But would it be a better world? I think we can still make judgments, even if we have no choices, can't we? It's interesting to speculate on what our world would be like if we all realised we had no choice over what we do. Could a science fiction story be written on this basis?
I'll have to try and work out just how things would be if we all assumed we had no choices. But for the moment I am just going to sit back for a while and enjoy not thinking about the importance or significance of my life, then go and see if the washing is dry and ready to take off the line. It's a good drying day, sunny and some wind. No moral judgment needed there, for sure.
Edit I have been careless over the use of the word "significant." Obviously what happens, whether we have chosen it or whether it simply happens without anyone's choice, may be significant, in that it can point to something, show or clarify something for our information; be interesting in a cerebral way. If however you start reading "A Course in Miracles: Workbook for Students" you will soon come across the exercise prompting you to look around you and consider that what you are looking at "has no meaning." In other words, it has no significance apart from its existence and connection with other objects. I'll say more about this book soon.
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Monday, February 18, 2013
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