This post is just clarification of the previous one, after reading mouse's comment. I have to admit now that I used the word "God" partly
intentionally to provoke and partly because it is short to type. For
me, "God" does not mean some superior separate being, arbitrarily visiting
humanity with rewards and punishments; the standard "Christian" version
of a loving, all-powerful, omniscient Being who sometimes apparently "answers"
petitions and most of the time apparently does not, makes no sense to me. I could
better use the word "Consciousness" or "Totality." The Tao.
Now
by "accept" I do not mean lie back and do nothing. If you see something
that needs to be done, of course then do it if you can. Before reading mouse's comment, I had never heard of Clara Barton, but from what I have
read today I think she is an excellent example of what I mean: she saw
what needed to be done and did it. If a clever person wants to invent a
new gadget or system, he should go ahead and use his talents.
Design a railway, an aircraft, an internet, a blogging service so you
and I can exchange thoughts and be grateful for the work. By that word,
accept, I mean don't waste time and energy wishing things were different
now, but make plans and take action to make future moments more in line with how
you want them. If you have toothache, arrange a dental appointment and
don't regret your neglect, just accept it. You have neglected your
teeth, accept that and start taking care of them. The present moment is already happening before we can do anything about it, just act as
appropriate for your situation and avoid regret over the past and worry
over the future.
I say all this, but do we really have any choice
over what we do? Many say NO, there is no free will, and I am inclined
to agree with that, because, after all, there is no way you can
show that anything you have done you could have done differently at that
time you did it. You can assert that, and you probably will, but you cannot demonstrate it, so it is likely you had no choice in the matter. Neither can you show that you have any choice over what you are about to do in the next few minutes.
I have to admit I think this way partly because my natural
inclination is to regard with suspicion anything that is accepted by the
great majority. Almost everyone thinks he has the power to choose one course of action over another, but there is no evidence for that assumption and I
doubt it. Pretty well the whole of our society is based on commending or blaming people for the "choices" they have made, but I don't believe people do make choices. Behaviour is entirely automatic. So if you are a worrier, you are going to worry!
Some time ago, I published a post querying whether life mattered. I meant, should we agonise over what choices we, or other people, have made or are about to make? Is it important? If there is no free will, the whole question is irrelevant. One follower of my blog, well known and loved in this particular blogging community, became so indignant at this post that she promptly unfollowed me!
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