A couple of days ago I stumbled on this site. Ann Voscamp, the owner of the site and author of a best-selling book, and her family are such an attractive bunch of people, so I looked on Amazon for the book and reviews. I took advantage of amazon's "look inside" facility, and read some, but the style was so difficult to read and the subject-matter so - in my philosophy - (as in Hamlet I mean) blindly Bible-believing and dangerously misguided that I started wondering (for the thousandth time) how such lovely people could espouse such impossible beliefs. Perhaps it's just Ann, but most likely her husband, too, and then inevitably at least some of the children, some of whom are old enough to have developed beliefs of their own or at least abandoned those of the parents.
Then I started reading some of the reviews. As it happened, the reviews were shown in order of "helpfulness", and the most helpful ones turned out to be generally unfavourable, often reflecting my own views especially as to style and readability. I found it astonishing that such a difficult book should become a Number 6 best seller on amazon. I also felt anew the very familiar feeling of puzzlement about a large number of apparently sensible people adopting such apparently non-sensical beliefs and using those beliefs as guides to an apparently useful and fulfilling life.
This is the whole problem of religion, for me. To religious people (and I think that means the majority) belief is all, it doesn't have to make sense, but it has to appeal to the emotions. Glaring inconsistencies, such as the existence of other religions with different beliefs underpinning them, are ignored or treated the way I treat all religions: they are mostly mistaken and their adherents misguided.
The fact is that life treats everybody with indifference, whatever religion or lack of religion they espouse. Life does not care whether you are a Christian or a Muslim or an atheist, whether you are a philanthropist or a mass murderer. People want to see order and reason in life (though there is really no necessity for it) so they invent stories which seem to justify their situation or the situations of others; but I don't believe such stories. Karma, the wrath of God, Satan's tempting, past lives, judgement after death etc - all stories, pure invention.
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I wasn't able to follow the link you provided. I just kept getting a message saying that my email address wasn't authorized to access that page. Hmmmm. Could it be that "heretic" bit?
ReplyDeleteI think there are two parts to your distaste for this one. Bad writing, and then, ignorant religiosity.
As far as the writing goes, your comments, and those of the reviewers on Amazon, reminded me of the way I felt about "Fifty Shades of Grey" when it was all the thing. So I went and compared reviews, and they are surprisingly similar. Or maybe not all that surprisingly. I guess it really doesn't matter the genre. Bad, overblown, pretentious writing is what it is. The message, if there is one, gets buried in the dross of the author's ego.
And then there is the ignorant religiosity, which seems to me to be, likewise, very similar to the childish fantasy world drawn in the Fifty Shades books. I think that the drive to cling to fairy tales is about needing to not grow up and see and accept and value life as it really is. From my limited perspective, because I haven't read either of these two books, that's really all that is going on here.
Sue, I don't know why but that link led back to my blog dashboard, that's why you couldn't access it. I have corrected it.
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